Hi

after things have been so good for the last couple of weeks last night he aws with her. I cannot go through this anymore. it hurts too much.

We christened the baby on Sunday gone and it ws so beautiful all our family ws there and if felt like it used to be and then he pulls this last night.

I just feel like he will never leave her and i am not going ato stay in this anymore. my tiny heart is breaking and what hurts more is the fact that he still acts like he is doing nothing wrong.

I am asking myself why should i be hurt and unhappy when he has both of us and living hi slife a he poleases. That cannoft be right, someone cannot be so heartless and keep hurting someone they claim to care about.

I love him God knows that i do but i refuse to share him and i will not share him if he wants her fine he can have her i am not going to do this anymore.

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M4years
Daughter 8 years
Son 9 months
A at least 2 years

I am so sorry! I know how you are feeling. My H ended his affair but I fear that he will go back to her also. Hang in there. We are all here to help you through this.
Hugs...

Hi Sindy,

I think you should Plan B him. He is not even acting remorseful at all. You are right. If you continue to let this go on he will not respect you. You have given him his chance. I would Plan B him. I am about ready to plan B my husband because of telephone contact. I think my husband was continueing affair past discovery day but he always denies it. He is still calling her too often to be just because of baby. I am about ready to throw in the towel too. Are you useing protection when you have SF? Please take care of yourself. He is not worth you putting your health at risk. I do think if I were you and my husband was continueing affair in open, and I gave him a chance to break it off by doing plan A a short time. I think I would want to do Plan B. Your husband is torturing you. If you stay in this too long you will love bust. I think you may need to get out.

<small>[ July 30, 2004, 01:45 PM: Message edited by: Genia ]</small>

I am afriad that i have already LBed i was talking to him this morning about t and i was trying to do it in a calm manner but he started ascting like the problem was mine for finding out where he was last night.

I just could not let him get away with acting like he is doing nothing wrong so i LBed. and to tell you the truth i don't even care. I am at a point where i just don't feel anything. I have had it really i have.

Confronting calmly is not love busting. They feel guilty so they blame us for finding out stuff. You did nothing wrong but if you stay I am afraid you will lovebust. I think you need to get out by plan B before you do something you regret.
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