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#1165400 07/30/04 04:00 PM
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If you have been following my posts , you know that I recently rediscovered a set of negatives in my computer bag of my WW and the OM.

In both of my medical offices , I have a large " clean wall deficit" where my WW's portrait resided. I have decided that I am going to replace it with a picture of my wife in her thong bikini and her shirtless OM in a warm embrace.

This will definitely give me stimulation when I want to fall off the Plan B wagon. What is your opinion???

BTW MY WW sees patients in both offices at least once a week. Do you think she'd mind the new touch?

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Well, I think as long as you put it in a tasteful frame . . . <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

You are BAAAAAAAAAD!

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I love it!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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You guys are ALL bad!

Hey, what about a revolving slide show with the rest of the negs...with little captions. Show that WW just how really creative you are.

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You mean a pix like they put on the beer posters? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

Not very tasteful decor for your office. Gotta think about that replacement. How about a big boot stepping on an OM? You know like those legs and arms props coming out of a car door? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> You mean a pix like they put on the beer posters?

Not very tasteful decor for your office. </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I don't think you should discount the POWER of a tasteful frame! Everyone will think it is ART!

<small>[ July 30, 2004, 05:20 PM: Message edited by: Spider Slayer ]</small>

#1165406 07/30/04 05:21 PM
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And I thought I HAD A WICKED SENSE OF HUMOR!!!!!!!!!!!!

#1165407 07/31/04 01:13 PM
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#1165408 08/04/04 09:31 PM
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I am SO excited. Just got my 8 x 10 enlargements and have em framed.

They are a little grainy, Jane needs some work on her technique, but highly presentable.

Tomorrow am, one of each will be hanging in my two offices. It makes a husband proud to see his wife so happy and affectionate.

I hope Wife likes it. Especially the Title

C****** and Max, Love Forever 3-20-04. I hope that extra touch is appreciated

#1165409 08/04/04 09:53 PM
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Oh my Gyyyyoooooddddd!

You were serious????

Did you at least purchase tasteful frames?

<img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> SS <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

#1165410 08/04/04 11:08 PM
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I brought frames that are consistent with the solemnity of the occasion.

Wood frames from WalMart

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bwahahahaaahahahahaaaaaa! I love this thread! Cymanca, you are a genius! And so very very thoughtful to hang that specially framed nice picture for the W! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> I brought frames that are consistent with the solemnity of the occasion.

Wood frames from WalMart
</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">You are my kinda man . . .

#1165413 08/04/04 11:50 PM
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Coooooool.

#1165414 08/05/04 05:14 AM
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There must be a billboard near by one of the offices, huh?

Also, if you can scan the negative and send it to me, I can photoshop some "enhancements."

#1165415 08/05/04 10:32 AM
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It came to me last night while trying to get some sleep. My office staff is totally against what I am doing with the pictures(purely concerned with my welfare not WW).

I realized that putting up those pictures in an area I can see 100-200 times a day is a reality adjustment. THAT IT WHAT MY M IS. What I write to you great people is what my heart and mind THINKS the M is. I need to face the reality that my M is more than likely over. I am a firm believer in the principles of MB but perhaps for some people like me,when the WS has DONE nothing ( SAID a lot of nice , hopeful things)the M never had a chance. As my old surgery professor said " You can't make chicken salad out of chicken sh*t"

#1165416 08/05/04 11:09 AM
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I understand what you are doing. We all deal with these things in our own ways.

Even though my M is in recovery, I am finishing several of the A books I began reading, but never finished - and rereading some with my new perspective. My mind wants to pop back into blind, innocent trust again - my old habit of thinking and feeling. And that simply is not what my M is anymore.

I think my M is better than it was before the A, but some things will never be again. And I read the books, because even though it is painful to relive some aspects of the A, I cannot bury my head in the sand and pretend all is as it was.

I get from your last post that that is what you are doing in a way - seeing what IS, not just what you want to see. BUT, I may have misinterpreted. Either way, I love:

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> " You can't make chicken salad out of chicken sh*t" </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">It is soooooooooo true.

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SpiderSlayer,

You know exactly where I'm at.

Prayer for both of us.


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