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How to fell needs without contact! (Depressed)
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How do you fill EN with out contact.........WW did call 10 yr old D yesterday.....I feel right now that WW will never come back..It has been 27 weeks,,,,,,,,since she left...........With the custody battle comeing and the support hearing.isn't that love busting...........I am so scared right now....she is so stuborn.........I feel so lost.......Help
Re: How to fell needs without contact! (Depressed)
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Frank, you can't do much if she refuses to talk to you, however, a real lovebuster is letting your W run over you. And you are not allowing that anymore. You are protecting your D from this situation by putting her interests first and not allowing your W to use her as a pet. Women respect a man who takes stand.

Hang in there and say lots of prayers.

There are no guarantees but what you are doing NOW is much more likely to garner respect that what you were doing.
Re: How to fell needs without contact! (Depressed)
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I would guess that by protecting and taking care of your children you are fulfulling one of your wifes needs right there.
Re: How to fell needs without contact! (Depressed)
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Thank you guys I don't know what I would do with out you guys...........I sit here and wonder what she is up to and if she is safe.........I called my mom and she told me the same thing......She said by not bothering her you are making her wonder.........And that is what she needs to do right now............Mom said that now OM has to here her cry about her D and he will get sick of it after awhile..........Because OM don't want your D there any how...............It cramps his style.......She said sooner or later my WW will see this and does now.......

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