<small>[ November 22, 2004, 03:22 PM: Message edited by: joe c. ]</small>

Sorry to read your post. i am one of those WS who has done exactly that (circumstances may be differnt however...) i did the same thing, i had a 10 day affair, it was like a holiday (please don't take that the wrong way am just trying to say...that is all it is) for me it was looking for something to fill the void. god know now how much i regret doing what i did. my partner and i have not been able to 'recover' i hope for you that you WS realises what sort of mistake they are making, as certain as the sun will rise tomorrow or the next day - this will not make them feel anymore complete. we are stupid humans sometimes, our lives seem so mixed up we try and find something, anything to make it seem right. may god bless you and i hope he brings your partne to their senses really really quick. i am sorry you have to feel such pain.
god bless

Take a deep breath joe...u are in for a long ride.

Dont think too much about what is going on with them. I know it is hard but you have to learn to let it go. No use wondering and thinking about it.

The reality will sink in eventually but this takes time. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

You don't know my whole story?

WS has been talking and emailing this guy for a year. They've built a real relationship. She's not just involved for 10 days. She's met up with OM on several occasions.

So?

Emailing, talking and meeting occasionally is nothing. Reality will only hit when WS realise that she is losing you or reaslising that she cannot cope with OM's warts. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />