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Well today is day 24 of WW not seeing D (10 yr old).....Like I said WW called D friday at 6:32 pm and again at 6:42 pm........She asked if D wanted to see her..........Today my Mom was getting hair done at hair dressers down the street from were WW is staying.......I stopped in to meet HD and she was telling me how bad WW looks with weight loss. and how depressed she looks in the face.She said that WW is not the girl she knew........and it is a real shame.WW acts as if she is still with me and when she was in there last week she told HD that D was at a friends house......Why has she not told her.......HD said WW looks like she lossed her mind....How sad...
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Because I have not talked to WW isn't that like plan "b" with out a letter..Because of the support hearings and custody hearing isn"t that love busting.............I did send the letter..........
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I was going 2 respond that there's no such thing as plan B without the letter, but then you said you sent one.
So, what's the 2uestion?
Did you inform the HD of what's happened?
-ol' 2long
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Hi Frank, you can't sacrifice your D's well being for fear of committing a love buster. The custody helps Meagan and also gives your W some consequences. Up until now, there have no consequences at all, so this is a very good thing. You are making your W uncomfortable and that will help end the affair. It sounds like she is miserable.
I would also make sure people understand that the reason your W is not seeing D is because she REFUSES to come down and visit her despite numerous invitations.
And no, this isn't Plan B. She just isn't contacting you. I think you should send her a nice love letter [Plan B letter] just after the custody hearing. What do you think?
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by frankd:
<strong> HD said WW looks like she lossed her mind....How sad... </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">That's because she has...sometimes I think people have to hit rock bottom for them to wake up.
Hang in there Frank, your making sure you D's mental well-being comes first and you should feel proud of that.
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melodylane, I will send the letter after the custody..........I wish the UFO (aliens)would bring my wife back............
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I hope so too, Frank! I am hoping that the custody hearing wakes her up somewhat. I imagine she is feeling pretty isolated right now, which will work in your favor.
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