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Some of you might recall; WW bailed on our 15 year business and marriage partnership after both of us made a poor decision to partner with unethical people and lost a significant amount of $$. (Our Mistake!)
Come to find out; WW also "found love" with a family-friend/employee while still here. WW and OM were "spending time" and not working much; consequently our business further suffered & I was left to put the pieces back together. WW says "EA-only is now over & done". However; WW still refuses to a NC letter to OM after their "ending" phone call was full of "I Love You's" and so on.
WW stands firm that business-bail-out was "not that bad", but refuses to come back and although "EA was wrong , it was not infidelity!" Her stance has sent me into Plan-B. WW says she will move out tomorrow. TBH; I am relieved. DD will suffer-no doubt; but what can I do? WW has made firm-decision, history shows she will not budge and this is our second trip to this rodeo... Previous rodeo; same MO, (very)slightly different circumstances resulting in me forgive/forget. Now that I've set the precedent; WW wants same treatment again. (Note: I asked WW to call her Mother & Dad; tell them all the bad things that I've done; then inform them of your actions! [I know, I know; LB!]) WW refuses to call though. Has already lied to Mom about entire story and cannot backtrack now!
Question: Offer input on best reading material for divorce and DD. Prefer Christian-based. Thx!
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I would not be so quick to D. Try Plan B first, if she does move out. Denial in the face of reality is very typical. So don't give up too soon. Wait til you have done a solid Plan B.
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