I want to tell you about an episode of Berman and Berman I watched the other night. Yes I know that The Berman sisters are sex therapist but this situation was a huge dose of reality for me.

There is a Married couple who go to a well known sex counselor. They tell the counselor they feel like thier marriage is lacking that sexual spark they once had and both of them want advice on how to bring it back to the Marriage.

This counselor gives some very strange advice and gives them a task to prove what he feels has been lost in thier Marriage.
He tell the wife to go home and get dressed up in her sexiest outfit, do her hair and make up,,, basicly get all dolled up. Then to take off her wedding ring. He tells them to both go out to the local singles bar. They are to go together but enter the door 10 minutes apart. The wife is to sit at the bar by herself and the husband is to sit at a table across the room but somewhere he can still see his wifes every move.

They do as instructed, the wife sits by herself and orders a drink. Soon a man approaches her and begins to conversate with her. He is making her laugh, they are having a nice conversation. The wife is smiling the whole time.
The husband is watching across the room and getting pretty upset seeing this OM talking to his wife and making her feel good.

The next day they meet the counselor. He asks how did it go? The two explain the night and how they both felt.

The counselor tell the two of them the discovery of thier marital problem was revealed in the events that took place at the night club.
He tells the Husband why the OM was able to make his wife smile and feel good. He tells the husband he has lost touch with his wifes need for conversation and laughter. He tells him to look at his wife through the other mans eyes.
The husband responded positive and said the whole thing somehow showed him where he was failing to make his wife feel good with conversation and emotion.

As unethicle as it seems It felt like the counselor saved the marriage from an affair. He showed the problem and also did it to where both couples could see how they got to this point.

To me I felt like it was my wife at the bar and I was watching how her OM was able to seduce her.
I thought prior to the affair when was the last time me and my wife had that kind of conversation.

I have allways wanted to know first hand of how the OM was able to gain my wifes affection.
After watching the Wife react to that stranger when she was placed in my wifes shoes,,, I have even more understanding on how the wheels were set in motion for my wife to betray her vows.

Did anyone else happen to catch this show?
It was on discovery health channel.
What is your opinion on how the counselor showed the couple where there marriage was vulnerable to an affair?