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I am feeling so alone and abandoned today. I've been out all morning looking for a job...no luck yet. My H didn't call or stop by this morning (which he ususally does). I have so much on my plate right now and just don't know how to handle it. I'm trying to get a job, take care of our son and deal with all these emotions of the A. I just don't know how to cope with all of this?
My H is mad at me becasue I don't have a job yet....he's mad at me becasue he thinks I'm the reason he had the A.....he's mad at me becasue I'm not who HE wants me to be. I can only be ME! I can't change who I am. I feel like he's abandoning me when I need him the most. I was crying last night and he just left. How can he do that???? I feel so hurt and angry!!!!!
I just don't know what to do right now? I'm so confused. God please help me!!!!
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> I was crying last night and he just left. How can he do that???? </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">It's okay to be sad, but this can't be the person he's confronted with on a daily basis. He views this as added pressure, and will only get angrier.
I know life is kicking you around right now. STOP BEING SO DOWN ON YOURSELF. This isn't going to help at all.
Think positive, believe. You can't change what's going on around you, but you can take control of yourself. You have to fight this off. Fight off the feeling of being defeated. You have value.
Don't let his anger affect you in any way, he has enough of his own issues to deal with.
Any thoughts about going to Plan B ?
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He just sent me and email saying that he loves me but doesn't think we were meant to be married. He says he just wants us both to stop hurting and be happy. Is this the fog talking? Could it be that he's saying we weren't meant to be married becasue right now he can't make me happy? I'm so confused!!!!!! ANy thoughts on that???
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He just sent me and email saying that he loves me but doesn't think we were meant to be married. He says he just wants us both to stop hurting and be happy. Is this the fog talking? Could it be that he's saying we weren't meant to be married becasue right now he can't make me happy? I'm so confused!!!!!! ANy thoughts on that???
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