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#1167431 08/04/04 08:39 PM
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Errrrrrr.... Ummmmm......... not wanting to threadjack, but, but, but....

What if... MB forum members offered an "Exposure Service", say to the tune of 25, maybe 50, maybe even 100 e-mails , all from different members, were sent to the OP's spouse?

Awwwwwwww... just a wicked thought.

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LOL!

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> And I hear a hint of jealously in your voice about my helmet princess hair?? </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">You bet your [censored] you do!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

#1167433 08/05/04 12:18 AM
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Melody,

This might be a stupid question (because I gave up on trying to keep up with everybody's situations--my memory just ain't that good!), but why is she not blocked from IM'ing him? Has she kept the same screen name, or does she change it just so she can IM him (just thought of that <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> )?

#1167434 08/05/04 12:50 AM
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Melody, this shocked me to the core. It really did. I always think of you as totally past all this stuff that the rest of us (BS and WS) are going through.

But, it just goes on and on.

OM's W will NEVER have to deal with anything to do with me ever again. Some people amaze me. Why would they want to heap hurt on top of hurt?

Jen

#1167435 08/05/04 05:40 AM
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Melody,

I’m glad you H told you about the IM directly after he saws it… Good for you (and him) and good for your M! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> I’m sure his honesty and openness towards you was a re-assurance & confirmation to you that you can indeed trust him. However, like luvbird, I was also wondering why she is not yet blocked from IM’ing him.

Suzet

#1167436 08/05/04 07:49 AM
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by luvbird:
<strong> Melody,

This might be a stupid question (because I gave up on trying to keep up with everybody's situations--my memory just ain't that good!), but why is she not blocked from IM'ing him? Has she kept the same screen name, or does she change it just so she can IM him (just thought of that <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> )? </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Luv, he had just installed the software on his laptop on Monday when he got to his destination and I doubt he even thought about blocking anyone. I bet she is blocked now! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by KiwiJ:
<strong>

OM's W will NEVER have to deal with anything to do with me ever again. Some people amaze me. Why would they want to heap hurt on top of hurt?

Jen </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Jen, I got the feeling from her that it is all just a huge joke! And really, that doesn't surprise me. I honestly don't think she has a conscience. Here is a woman that brings men into her home when her H is out of town and introduces them to her children. It takes a special breed of alley cat to slink that low!

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She's a real piece of work, ML.

Looking on the positive side, besides reinforcing what a complete skank OW is this situation served as further proof that your H is honest and trustworthy! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" />

Lori

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i vote for an e-mail overload on her--- but thats just me.... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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What time in the morning did she IM you after the 1st call?

Go for filing an RO against her. Imagine the advertising:

DDS looking for new patients -
Excells in fields of denistry, customer service and harassment.

Able to call clients and non-clients at all hours of the night whenever she has a need to be met. Does not keep vows or promises.

Considers her needs over others. Very personable in your face kind of character.

Character references available upon request: current H, patients, OM1, OM2, OM3......

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#1167441 08/05/04 11:28 AM
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Is Pep gonna tell us what happened??!!

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I'm dyin here ...

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Okay, didn't think it would hurt to ask.

Sorry for posting on this thread. Won't happen again.

My apologies,
Jo

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Resilient:
<strong> Is Pep gonna tell us what happened??!!

<img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />


I'm dyin here ... </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> </font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Pepperband:
<strong> no </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> </font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Resilient:
<strong> Okay, didn't think it would hurt to ask.

Sorry for posting on this thread. Won't happen again.

My apologies,
Jo </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">...... & Y not?!??!?! , Ms. Pep? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />

watcha apologizin fur Res? :rollingeyes:


L.

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Jo, I guess this means wer'e going to have to beat it outta her! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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What are you doin' up so early, Mel?

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WAT, this is entirely against my religion to be up this darn early! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

I have to drive down to Lufkin, Texas this morning to give a presentation. Thank goodness it's Friday, WAT!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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I'm actually getting a later start than normal. I'm usually up at 5:00 EDT, but my son is going to summer school to take an extra math class and I "get" to start a little later so I can take him to the campus.

Drive safely!

WAT

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Would you kids keep it down! ol' 2long's trying 2 sleep out here! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

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Dern near lunch time..........

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