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well i am sorry to report that i asked husband to leave. he is now at a hotel. i couldnt do it any longer with him not respecting my boundries and still doing the things ive asked over and over to change. almost three years is enough! he is sobbing and broken...so i ask all of you that have been here for this journey for me....please pray for him. i am hoping he will finally come here and put his pride away and ask for help....i know you will all support him and guide him if he does....
thanks you for your support and prayers......
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So are you starting Plan B?
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well right now i asked him to leave and gave him a detailed list of what i would need him to do to come back. it really isnt plan b unless he abandons the list and does not try to do what needs to be done. for me i guess its a waiting game to see if he chooses freedom or family. if he chooses to finally work on us i will be here and do what i can. if he chooses to let his pride and hurt rule him.....then its plan b time. the choices are all his now.......
i am trying to keep the house as normal as possible for me and the kids---this had destroyed my youngest son.....he just wants daddy home.
so do i...but i know he has to do the things we need to move foward with this. we'll see....
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we had a long talk last night. going over the list of things he will have to do. we spoke of counseling and i told him its steve harley or forget it. im tired of wasting time and money. with him i know we wont.
we went over every issue so he understand each one. we talked for a bit and he will be comming over to se us today. its his day off. i explained how i felt and that i hated this but i have no choice. its up to him know.
so keep praying my friends...we need it!
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