WW is back with OM or never left. Not sure; don't care. I knew this would happen as NC letter was never made or sent. Doesn't matter though as I got worse news today. As mentioned in earlier post; WW having small town A and word is getting out. OM always portrayed Christian Image and OM & OMW previously supervised childrens Church for a couple of years. (Not our Church!)

Word is out about A and I'm getting calls from people I don't even know. One W I know says he may be; but she would be worried about any man. 2 friends also say the same thing and know OM. (Opinion only based on hearsay and personally watching OM around kids. No sex; but in their words; "all over the kids".) OMW is in strong denial about entire A and does not want to be told anymore when OM and WW are together.

WW and I have 12 yo DD! WW has shown very little concern about divorce affecting DD as still deep in fog. According to WW, OM is "perfect" and WW refuses to communicate with me so anything I say will be ridiculed. WW may listen to W of respect but I'm not sure.

I am not going to allow DD to go with WW next week as WW has a swimming pool, DD loves to swim and OM will be around. This will create extreme havoc and most likely ruin any chance of M recovery. M is nearly over anyway and DD is my priority; but I'm willing to listen to any ideas that do not include OM and DD together.

FR

<small>[ August 12, 2004, 03:57 PM: Message edited by: Fishracer ]</small>

You'd better keep DD away from him...

Accusing somebody of being a pedophile is very, very serious. Don't do it based on gossip.

GC

<img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />

and of course you have no solid evidence..so you can't really do anything to prevent contact until/unless something were to happen.[bangs head on desk]

Could she be trusted with a cell phone of her own to take with her? Perhaps not to outright tell her of your suspicions, but to spend a lot of time making sure she knows what are appropriate boundaries and what are not?...something? anything rather than go in blind and defenseless.....[shudders]

Noodle

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Fishracer:
M is nearly over anyway and DD is my priority; but I'm willing to listen to any ideas that do not include OM and DD together.</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">FR...the other day I actually read through all of your threads/responses. You have been given excellent advice (obviously fom SH as well <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> ) and it continues with the above responses.

First, if there is no legal paper to prevent your W from taking your D, by all means keep her home. Or better yet, go wawy for the day or something. *IF* OM *is* what you have heard (or even a chance), you do *NOT* want to put her (and you if God forbid anything ever did happen) in that position.

However, as GC said, it is a very strong accusation you are hearing. Right now, it is just an accusation.)

PS I know my old parish just started doing background checks on *ANYONE* who has any affiliation with the children. (My mom has been teaching for over 30 years there and they requested it from her as well.) Is--or can be--something like this implemented in your "parish"? (I'm assuming "No" by the thread you posted about the "F-councelour"! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> )

Best of luck and God bless!

Here in California, there is a website to see where pedophiles live. You might check if your state has one.

Pedophiles often get with a woman to get to her children. I had rental houses, and one of our renters was a pedophile. He drove the church bus, and was a manly looking guy, and real nice. Just goes to show you, always be cautious.