So I was wondering, if somebody were to write a letter to my WW and perhaps some members of her family on my behalf, could I be accused of harassment?

The D papers I was served indicate that the parties are not to "harass" each other.

Here's the definition of harassment in my state:

“repeated incidents of intrusive or unwanted acts, words, or gestures that have a substantial adverse effect or are intended to have a substantial adverse effect on the safety, security, or privacy of another, regardless of the relationship between the actor and the intended target.”

Just curious. I'll probably ask my lawyer about it tomorrow.

GC

holy, cow! It is so funny that you asked this question because I was just going to post an update abut my situation here concerning the same matter --- sort of.

I broke up with OW last year. She made up a bunch of false nonesense, fabricated some e-mails and claimed I wrote them, and had me arrested for "cyber stalking" etc. I was put in jail. We have been trying to work ot a deal since February, but she keeps saying she won't agree to any claims unless I agree to not do anyting to "ruin her careeer."

I never mentioned this before. But OW has been an aspiring actress for nearly 20 years. She just doens't have what it takes to succeed in this crazy business. She is a loser.

It amzes me that after all I have been through, the State Prosecutor has no balls and cna't even stand up to this *****. I mean, she NEVER talks about how she is afraid am going to kill her or her kids. All she cares about is that I might say someting about her and hurt her chancees of being a famous actress. What a nutcase! That should be proof positive that this was all about revenge and nonesense. I have lost so much respect for the amaerican legal system.

Here's the rub; though. I am a professional journalist. In many ways, my being arrested and dragged through the legal system in this way has really motivated to taking a stand against this kind of abuse of the legal system. But I am wondering myself ---- can a State Prosecutor or anyone really INSIST that I not mention her name or do anything that might hurt her career? I mena, IF EVERYTHING I MENTION IS TRUE, then I should be able to write an article on this and put it in any paper or magazine or whatever and not have a fear in the world.

It kind of feels like a twilight zone episode.

Let me know what your lawyer said about writing letters. I'll let you know what mine says.

Imagine. U.S.A. 2004. And we're being told what we can and can not talk or write about. What a joke.

Oh, by the way, IF she had a carrer, she would not be spending the lasdt 9 months trying to get me put in jail because I broke up with her and made her cry. She'd be busy with a real life. What a loser. At least I can say that the legal fees and bond were still cheaper than hiring a prostitute.

I love my W. I am glad I am M. OW is a sick, depraved, lying lunatic who needs very severe psychological help.

I hope everyone is well.

WK

This will be my last post regarding my relationship with OW. There is no need to reply.

My legal case is over and I am on probation. My judge has required that I post this final message.

I apologize to OW, or anyone else for that matter, who was offended, alarmed or disturbed by any of my previous posts.

Love can cause people to do odd things. I recognize that I was not able to appropriately deal with the aftermath of the relationship. I am seeking licensed professional help for these issues.

I wish all of you the best in your lives.

WhiteKnight