WW still fogged in the head.
1. Wants to lead her double life, me on the side, and single friends (and possibly OP) when it suits. I have yet to lower myself to her standards but am wondering when I will give in, after all it's been 3 months.
2. Am finding it harder to keep my trap shut when she comes home late after being out with the others, alchohol seems to loosen my lips and lets me tell it like it is, although this has very rarely happened over the 3months.
3. Everyone including her family and closest friends tell me that they are in disbelief about what is going. They are all trying to talk sense to her but the vacuum of the mind is still to great.
4. Every passing day is making me lose that bit more respect for her (tanks well into reserve at the moment). Have explained this, she agrees and she understands why, but contines on the road to separation and D.
If anyone can offer some sanity saving advice I am happy to listen. Thanks I finished the vent!

What's # 5?

Thanks Orchid. - Some very good tactics and stories.
My immediate problem is I am am beginning to struggle with controlling a rising anger / jealousy at times, mainly when she is out with "new friends" and comes home all happy and then is soooo sad shortly after.
I will re-read and try to remember...