I'm in the exact situation as you and was not going to go to the picnic because of OW until I read the replies to your posting. Especially Topaz28...your words and advice made me see things differently and kick-started me into taking back control of my life! A big hug and thank you for that. [Come to think of it, since the ONS, the OW hasn't shown up at numerous functions. Hmmm...wondering how she's been feeling?!!!]