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Dear Friends
8 years ago I started dating a girl married to a friend of mine. One month into the relationship I even paid for her to divorce the guy... Now 8 years later she is cheating on me and I love to have her back in my life... I made a big mistake then and I would like to know if is it possible for me to save my relationship?
We did have a lot of problems over the years,but I never thought that she could leave me someday.
She is so beautiful, but she was not mine at that time..And God knows all the things!Please any advise?
Lost in pain
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Joined: Apr 1999
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Dude, quit posting the same message over & over.
We did have a lot of problems over the years,but I never thought that she could leave me someday.
If she'll do it with ya' she'll do it to ya'.
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Joined: Mar 2000
Posts: 1,885
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I agree...if the two of you destroyed a marigae then what made you think she wouldn't do it again? She needs some serious help. What goes around comes around. Sorry!!!!
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Joined: Feb 2004
Posts: 732
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Lost in pain -
GO into your duplicate/triplicate posts and click edit (paper/pencil) icon and remove the topic line..maybe just say "duplicate post..sorry" and they'll fall off the board. Or you could email the moderators and ask them to remove all together.
And the fact that you have come to this board asking for help when you have done the same thing your W is doing to you to her former husband...your 'friend' will probably get some folks fired up around here.
Take it all in stride. There are people here that will help you. I'm sure.
I'll help you remove your quadruplicate posts but that's about it.
I'm with Chris on this one..
If she did it with you then what makes you think she wouldn't do it to you?!?!?! Let me guess your love was true and you were soulmates and her ex-H was not able to meet her ENs. What has happened here is you've married a serial cheater and you've fallen into the statistics of other "mate poachers"....it just doesn't work out.
You started on the same foot you are ending on. Your W is having an A.
There's a part of me that wants to believe that there are people on this board that may find the irony of your story as helpful. Believer and maybe WAT will stop by and see what their WS has in their future.
I'll shut up now because I'm sure I'll get some 2x4's for this post. Good luck.
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