Had my first session with SH today.

Told him the whole story.... from my point of view anyway.

Have been holding off with WH and OW A exposure at work. SH said that was probably a good idea for now.

Also, he told me what I knew was coming. Go to Plan B. I agreed, told him that it was what I thought would be happening now. I am getting tired of all of this. Tired of WH telling me lies all of the time.

And Plan A can be very exhausting!

Cell phone messages from OW, seeing that WH had recieved a call from her the night after they supposedly broke up, and watching WH actions (first very depressed and agitated the night and day after he broke up with her, then... next day not so bad, talkative and a little affectionate) with all of this.

So, I need to write a Plan B letter to send after this weekend is over. Will stay in plan A until then.

If I post my Plan B letter, will some of you help me tweak it? Thanks.... K

FRIENDSHIP PRAYER

May the fleas of a thousand camels infest the crotch of the person who screws up your day... and may their arms be too short to scratch... Amen

You didn't tell on us for having a big fight on your thread, did ya???? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

hehe, just kidding, K! Aren't ya glad you talked to him? Isn't he wonderful?

Do you want me to post some links to Plan B letters to help you out?

Your Plan A has been really GOOD....

Now on to Plan B ... which will seem like a freakin' vacation after an emotionally exhausting Plan A.

Start a new thread with your Plan B letter draft.

Pep

K: Glad to hear you're doing well and you got some good advice from SH.

(Sorry I never posted on your re-thread--felt *really8 bad at what happened and didn't think it would have been appropriate!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> ) Great to hear that you have your head on straight and keep it held high!

PS--I love the friendship prayer--I have one hidden on my desk called the "Employee Prayer"! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Thanks everyone!

At times I feel like my head is on straight, then I sometimes have doubts about everything.

Like what if he really did break it off with her, and hasn't contacted her, and is really telling the truth, etc,etc, etc.

Then this cold wind comes into my head and says "don't be a fool". Like someone said before, if his lips are moving, he's lying.

This weekend is our town shindig. WH here last night. He slept on the couch most of the night - unusual..

Will plan A this weekend then, on Monday, Plan B letter. Probably won't get much of a chance to post or read any here.

K

Yes Mel..

Please post some links to Plan B letter. I will try to read them this weekend, but will probably be too busy...

Thanks, K