The divorce date was July 21, and the wife and OM are all over town after the same old were just friends etc. crap

The OM is my ex friend of 21 years and my wife of 14 years and 3 years of dateing.

The have been out with the kids and are
planning a trip out of town this weekend.

The ex wife was very determined I watch the kids this weekend plus the OM's kids told their mom
Daddy and Ms. S***** are going out of town.

It sitll hurts, I still love her. She has been gone 13 months and never looked back, plan A B
or C D or E did not even make her stop.
She went for the money, Bottom line. I guess I will wait till she falls, that will happen for sure. She has been to the Dr 36 times in the last 11 months. Loratab, muscle relaxers, Darvocet and 2 different anti D's plus drinking.

I still love her.

Hey Steve, sorry it didn't work out better. At least you can say you gave it your best shot. I wonder if she has a drug addiction?

How is she supporting herself now?

Hi gbl,

Sorry to hear about your xw's antics. The fall will come.

Is this your weekend w/o the children? If so, don't you already have plans? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

L.

Hi Steve:

I was wondering about you recently. did the settlement work out enough in your favor that you and your kids can make the best of things?

Please keep coming here. There are a couple new guys in sitches similar 2 yours and I think you could help each other.

best,
-ol' 2long

Hi hear and feel you man,

I'm now 17 months since day WW confessed and left. No kids.

I don't know what my WW is doing to cope as your WW seems to have pill issues. I think that statement alone should tell you that your WW is simply coping, existing etc. Her relationship is just another drug.

The problem with covering up problems, hiding from guilt, shame can go on for years. - Drug addicts and drinkers are perfect examples of people who obviously have emotional issues but refuse through denial to look in the mirror and change.

Just wanted you to know that I'm also out here and offer some view - keep fighting the good fight.

OK here goes, I think the wife has a pill problem. The OM is a known liar bottom line.

I was his friend for 21 years and have found things out he has lied about for years.
The wife thinks everyone is wrong thinks everyone is mean and hateful except him and her father. They are out of town at the beach right now.

I kept the house, lowered my child support payments and can claim 1 child on my tax returns.
The wife will now have to pay her own insurance,
car and health which I payed in the past.
She has less money now than before the D.

I have told the kids that the OM is a bad person that he lies, Is this wrong. I tell them he is
wanting to replace Daddy.

I have not dated, Still go to the gym and hang out with friends, My oldest daughters school teachers are wanting to fix me up!!!

The secretary at the attorneys office was wanting to fix me up with another woman that worked there. I saw her very cute. A woman
where my sister in law works wants to go out with me. She is really nice.. I have the kids
this weekend. My daughter lied when I asked about who she and Ex wife was out with last night. (OM and his kids)

She said she did not want to hurt my feelings
and knows I do not like the OM.. What do I do.
Co workere and OM's ex told me they were out.

OM had to leave wife at a restruant when he took
his kids to his parents, Ex wife is not welcome
at OM's parents. He droped off the kids and returned to rest. to get wife. Daughter told me OM has been at the house 3 times this week
from 5pm till 8 or 9

wife an OM are spending the weekend together,
Wife called and told kids she was at her fathers and going to sleep.. what a liar

It was also 1 year ago they spent the weekend in New Orleans....1 month after she walked out on our Aniversary