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#1172338 08/14/04 08:30 AM
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First I want to say that my H took one of his normal trips on Monday. There were about 50 miles on his car. What I thought was strange was that he did not wash clothes that day. That breaks his pattern. According to my voice activated recorder, he left around 11:45am and came home just after 3pm. He took a shower and left again - he had a meeting at work at 4pm.

Well, last night I looked in his closet, and I found a crumpled up shirt hidden behind something in the corner. It REEKED of smoke.

So it appears that he's going to a bar or something. Do bars open at noon on weekdays?

Please let me know what you guys think about this.

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He could be going to a hotel room with a person that smokes. That is my bet. So you have to figure out the hotels within 25 miles of your house.
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He also could be going to strip clubs...They are PACKED at lunch time.
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He could also be going to a pool hall...

or a poker room.
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Thanks for the different ideas.

You know, it's funny, the more time that passes by, every time I find out that he makes one of his trips, the less it bothers me. I wonder why that is. I wonder if it's my ADs that are working. Maybe I just don't care anymore.

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