OW called me wants to know if I admitted having sex to BS. I've already called BS to let her know of phone call still waiting to hear from her!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />

Please advise

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<small>[ August 16, 2004, 03:20 PM: Message edited by: shattered dreams ]</small>

DTEL, go back and read the replies to your first post. Number one on your list of things to do is that all important No Contact letter! That includes phone calls, DTEL. It's over is it not?

Good that you told your wife that OW called, now sit down tonight and work on that letter together. Here is a link to some sample No Contact letters

No contact is just that, no contact in any way shape or form. Taking this step will go a long way in reassuring your wife IF you follow through. This is a nonnegotioable step in working towards rebuilding your marriage. You must change your phone numbers if neccesary, whatever it takes, DTEL.

You also might want to give a history as to this affair so that you can be better helped on this site. Marriage Builders concepts offers hope to recover your marriage in spite of your infidelity, but it will require some effort on your part. Have you shown your wife this site? She will find much support here as will you. Best, KB

DTEL,
OUR OW did the SAME thing.

Now we know the reason to be truthful.

After that "Outing"...my FWH...gave me all the details.

It's a mistake to withhold information...especially when there is someone evil and mean out there trying to break you.

I hope your W comes here.... she'll find so much help.

If she wants to know...I'll tell her what I told OW when she tried this..and every other trick in the book to keep rocking the boat once she got kicked out of it.