Hey Shelly, Sorry this has taken me so long to get back to, but life around here has been pure hell. Here goes...On July 30 my wh actually showed his REALLY UGLY side. He came to the house while I was at work in an attemp to get his check without my knowledge. That didn't work as the boys were fully aware of his intentions. They called me at work, my boss (heaven sent her to me)sent me home. When I got home, he was polishing his Harley. I stepped up to the side of the bike and proceeded to ask him the following questions: 1-Where have you been 2- Why haven't you called 3- Where is your CDL that you said you have 4- Who do you work for and 5- Where is your log book. The "answers" were "It doesn't matter" and "It's none of your business". These answers made me quite angry! He puts his helmet on the handlebars when he's not on the bike, I, angry as I was, took my hand and knocked his helmet to the ground and told him as his wife it most defineately was my business. He then raised his fist to hit me and called me a stupid F***ing B****. I did not realize that my boys were all standing at the front door, they came out the door and told him not to ever raise his fist at their mom. He told them to stay out of it that it was none of their business. My oldest,R, told him that when he raised his fist at me, he made it his business and that since he deserted his family,that he had no business telling anyone here what to do. It got very ugly after that, too much to go into, he pushed me, my middle son, J, pushed him, he pushed J, I pushed him and told him that he was not to lay one finger on MY kids. I managed to get the check, got $60 from him to pay the phone bill & $40 for some gas and groceries. He said he was going to pay the electric and water. I just got the electric bill the other day, he didn't pay it. He told me that he would call me on my birthday and that he would be here on the 13th. Of course that never happened. I told the boys that if he didn't call on my birthday, then I wasn't letting him in on the 13th (if he were to show up). Well, needless to say I really fell apart about 11:30pm on my birthday whan he never called. Still haven't heard or seen him. Now, yes there's more, MY CAR, the boys were looking at it Mon. night to see if they could figure out what was going on with it. While looking at the spark plugs, they found something that appeared to have been done deliberately to mess up my car. Something about oil on the plugs and it's supposed to be metal to metal. Also on Mon. night, we foung that "someone" left me a nasty little note on my windshield. It said something about seeing me, me seeing nothing, and that I drive a long, lonely road to and from work. I think wh is just trying to make me crazy. I have been deliberately run off of the road 2 times in the last 3 weeks. I'm changing my beneficery on my life insurance policy as soon as I can. Well, I think thats about it. There are a lot more details, but I can't type any more. OH, I almost forgot, I have a possible address to where he might be, and several people, including his brother, keep giving me information on seeing him with this ow, or should I say girl, as from what I gather she's much younger than he is. I have been given info that goes back 10 years! According to his brother, he's been "supplying" strippers and such with pills for quite some time. Well, he forgot his prescriptions when he left. They are now in my possesion. Ok, got to go to work. I'll check back in tonight. Love & Prayers, Lana
