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ws left 6mths ago still denies A don't know if EA OR PA WS left then OWM left her BS. Phone records show about 1200min a mth between WS/OWM.WS says he has liked OWM for a long time and has feelings for OWM.She has DD-3, DD-9mth and expecting (BS-babay) Had no idea He just moved out one day no fighting or anything. As of 8/12/04 in plan b although I was not very good a plan A.He says he is never coming home. Stay at home mom. Should I be in plan B not knowing 100% their is A?What about DD soccer games do I go and see him there?Will there ever be recovery without A being exposed totally?
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Can you talk with OW's husband? Get his take on this?
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PS... WELCOME to MB......
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Yes I talk to the ow husband often. Her entire family thinks she and my H are having an affair.He has given up on the chance of her return but I just can't.Everytime the OW husband has their kids My H won't keep ours.He says he has enough respect for our kids not to bring them around the OW.But he still denies anything but a friendship with her. She tried 10 years ago to date my H who was my boyfriend then but he refused.I figured that was high school stuff. My husband says he never had to chance in high school to see if she was what she really wanted and made a mistake marrying me.
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Call the Harleys for an appointment, I think that is your best bet.
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