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I know I haven't been around much here lately. Work is kicken.
Just got off the phone with WW. She calls to tell me that she has to work late tommarrow and that the kids need to stay with me for the night. I'm thinking great, but why are you calling me here and now. I guess my emotions showed and she starts yelling at me. Telling me that they would be better off if I would just go away. Now I'm floored were did this come from. I asked her why and how she could say this and she tells me that I obviously dont care about our kids.
My whole heart is crushed now. I am trying to save our M for the 4 of us not just me. How could someone be so viscious and attack someone like this. I feel like I am starting over again. My kids are my life now.

I am to pick up the kids tonight and drop them off later. I know she is going to want to talk about this. What should I do? I dont know if I have the energy to let this one slide. How should I handle this. If I avoid it she will say that she is right and if I face it I may LB.

Texas Two Step anyone.

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k2m,

You have nothing to fear. She is babbling. Telling you to watch the children and then accusing you of not caring.

If anyone else heard that convo, they'd have her taken off the road for psycho babbling. WS' do it all the time. U really gotta wonder how they even function at work and home. Most don't do a good job.

Continue t/b a good dad. Be the stable H and show your best side. MB will help you keep improving yourself.

Some Bs' imrpove sooo much the WS are shocked and baffled. No wonder, the improvements are more than the WS' mind can handle. Ws' tend to accuse the BS by saying that the 'ws are afraid the bs may revert back to their old self.' Like that is worse than the spouse morphing into a WS? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

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