I could just scream - WH is home sick - typical.

Last week he was off work all week NEVER phoned me once - though, thru checking his phone card he sure called his OP's while he was home. So today, because he needs something from me - he calls and asks for a favor...What absolute nerve..

Then he asks ME to call my parents and my aunt to see if they are coming to his D wedding, since they did not reply yet. I told him - they are not coming - his reply - So, noone from your family is coming??? me: NO - Noone...him: ok, bye....How flippin stupid is he - he hasn't spoken to my parents since March, he shut them and all my family out - even my cousin who we always hung out with - and what he expects them to lower their standards/morals and attend his D wedding..Like none of this is going on????? They refuse to play his game even though I am still somewhat playing. A normal person - would have asked Why??? Not him...he is too bull headed and stubborn to even ask..though, he knows why...He's damn lucky I'm going and I'm only going to save his face in front of his family, friend, business associates...

Yes, I'm Mad...Where do these people (fog) get all the nerve...Like even though they treat us like crap we are supposed to do for them - though they do nothing we ask...

Yep.....I so totally HATE the Fog! It drives me insane! Let the aliens have them all!

Ithurts,
Wouldn't you just love to be able to this---right before he walks her down the isle, go up to him and give him a big hug. Attach a big red letter A to his back and watch him walk her down the isle...if for the fact that it is his daughter's and her groom's day and no one should ruin that day, it would be what he deserves-humiliation. How would he explain that one?

Funny - Here's what I was gonna do - since I know 3 of the OP my WH has been with - I'd make a copy of the invitation and send it to them...Wouldn't it be funny if they did show up....The 4th one will be at the W - nothing like rubbing my face in it huh....with her H - I think I'll ask him to dance - wouldn't that just tick her off....The only thing she saw in my WH is $$$$ and power (she works at our business) I find her H extremely attractive...not that I'm looking but hell, she S#@#@@# my H...The least I can do is look at hers....

If anyone asks about my parents/family etc. I will tell them that my WH has not seen or spoken to them and they did not feel it was appropriate to attend.

Once in a fit of anger I told WH - I hope ### never does to your D what you are doing to me...thinking that it would sink in - but, I dont' believe it even skinned the surface. These people in a fog don't see things or feel things the way other do..