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The attempt at recovery lasted 3 days - and things are even worse now.
And I am seriously re-evaluating. WHY do I want to make this marriage work. The guy is cold and rude, very uncaring right now. OW is there (EA). told me today that at least she listens to him, supports him, never judges him and it's never an ego battle with her (sorry - don't get that one - maybe I am in a fog too). NO counseling, no reason to stay - but won't tell me tp give up either. Listen to my heart - he says - well right now - my heart is PISSED.
I just don't want to do this anymore - if he doesn't show somw sort of initiative - something - I just don't want to do this. He LB all over me - and right now I can't think of a reason (other than our children) to stay with him.
How can a marriage like this survive?
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