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Peberley: As part of your Plan A, you may wish to communicate your boundaries as well. What about SF? Are you willing to risk it with him? He has admitted to a PA 2 or 3 years ago. You don't trust him that something might have happened recently. Be sure to protect yourself in the event he had unprotected sex that he is not admitting too.
Good Luck,
RH
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I have to agree with Rook...
I'm a FWH and I hid and wouldn't let my W see the cell bill. I had the online password protected so she couldn't get in there either. LIES, LIES and more LIES! If he wants to work on staying married tell him it has to be built on honesty. He has to give you complete access to his life. Passwords, (cell and email) should not be hidden. If they are... there is an OW.
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You can get her complete cell phone history (calls) to whomever, and her info if you have her cell phone number. A private investigator can get that and send it to you.
You can also get his complete cell phone history calls to anyone, length of time, date of call.
Also from a PI. I had to do it once and it worked wonders. He could not deny anything I had the proof. And it's not illegal, phone bills are considered public record. However, it can be costly.
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