WS has finally gone to see a legal person regarding the drawing up of a separation agreement. We had agreed apoun a fair and reasonable split of assets until she went top see a lawyer. She is now hiding behind the fact that the legal person is wanting full disclosure of our assets. 90% of asset were brought into M by me and I pay most 90% of the bills etc, but this seems to have no bearing on the fact that WS is legally entitled to get a big chunk of the asset base. I felt so angry that I popped my cork at her last night but eventually calmed down and tried to make her see reason. I am sooooooooo angry that this is happening to me. She has the A and I get to throw my lifes hard work down the toilet!!! How do you appeal to the green eyed monster that is within her...
Bye the way I do not live in the US, I live in Oz so our laws may differ. BIG SIGH and BIG VENT!!

I don't think that you can reason with a WH who is in a deep fog. You just need to fight for what you feel is right in a calm and rational manner. Get a lawyer and figure out what you are entitled to and fight for it. That way if you do get back together, you have preserved what the two have you have worked together to build. The last thing you want to do is to finance her A. Good luck and let us know what the lawyer says.