I was thinking today how I and my D are being hurt from all this and I realized everybody gets hurt even the WW spouse....nobody comes out smelling like a rose.........My D ask me today if I still want WW back........I told her yes but that is up to mommy..........how sad is this........my son tolsd me that WW said that I told D not to mess with OM........D told me that she told WW that she does not want anything to do with OM.....D said he tryed to talk to her but she egnord him...........good for her.......*******.......

Frank, I am sorry.

As you said, there are no winners in this affair mess, lots of people are hurt... <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" />

What is the progress of your legal issues? I think you said that your w had served you with D papers, is that correct?

What decisions have been made regarding Meagan? She should not be put in the middle of this conflict AT ALL! PLEASE try to refrain from discussing the OM or legal issues with her. She needs to feel safe.

Continue to take good care of yourself and your home. You are the stable parent here, the safe haven. You WILL be alright marriage or no marriage. Your W is not showing any signs of wanting to reconsile and you need to protect yourself financially from what may happen.

Try to enjoy the rest of your weekend Frnak, I will continue to pray for your situation, Ladysing

Sounds like she is a good judge of character!

Well I have to AKE meagan back to 7-11 tomorrow to meet her mom.....I go to hearing tuesday at 3:00pm I am nervess....My lawyers secretary called me at Hershey park yesterday to asked if we could do it at 2:00pm on monday instead.I did yes but her lawyer was not in so now it is tuesday again........I think We are going with the psyco test all three of us.......OM,WW......Yes I got D papers last friday........Just a piece of paper.......

Frank, are you telling your lawyer what you want and EXPECT? Remember, he is your employee, he works for you. He should be doing your bidding in addition to giving you legal advice.

The reason I ask is because there seems to be NO reasonable cause to expect you to take a psych test when it is clearly SHE who needs one. What is your lawyer doing to protect you from this kind of malicious persecution?

<small>[ August 21, 2004, 08:04 PM: Message edited by: MelodyLane ]</small>

he is taking it to the next step with test......He does not think I should....but want them to do it.........

Do you feel confident that he will fight for you?

yes I do..........I heard that he is very good at what he does..........the best.......I will fing out that is for sure.......

yeah! That makes me feel better.