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For those of you who that don't already know me, you can check out my thread on In Recovery the title is
Wife is in HARD withdrawal... Please Help.

(How do you insert a thread into a post)??????

What i want to know is. Should i share this site with her? I really want her to read the posts of SKM, stupidgirl, Chris and KiwiJ. I think they would give her great insight into herself and help her to see that other people feel exactly the same way that she does. However, I don't know if she will appreciate it or get angry by it. She knows i have used it in the past but i don't know what to do. She could get angry with me. She is in an aweful place.

I just want her to heal. I want her to experience true healing and to get out of this withdrawal.

However, some of my most intimate thoughts are here and i don't want them to destroy any progress (LOL) that we might be making.

What do you think?

<small>[ August 21, 2004, 11:44 PM: Message edited by: KCM ]</small>

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You might want to make an agreement ahead of time that you won't view each others threads - that way you both can feel safe to post your feelings.

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KCM, I replied to your first post here on GQII but I don't think you saw it. I can't remember what I said now. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

I'm one of the FWW's that has recovered her M and I tend to hang around because I got to know some wonderful people and I'm addicted to the place. I like to think I help out occasionally. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

I don't know that coming here in a thick fog will help. That fog is just about impossible to penetrate in the early stages, even by FWW's. If she's not totally fogbound and ready to recover then MB is a good place to be.

Right now I think you should keep MB for yourself. I'm sorry I can't remember your full story, I'll go back and read your threads and see what I think.

Jenny

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chackler & KiwiJ - thank you both.

I don't know if i should be here or In Recovery.
but it seems like more people are over here so maybe that is the place for me.
can i move the post from over there to over here?

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There is a lot more traffic over here. The weekend's are always quiet but I see quite a few people here tonight.

You're asking ME how to move a post? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

If I was moving a post I'd probably copy the first post then paste it into a new topic or even paste it as a reply to this one. Copy and paste work here just the same as in Word. That probably isn't the way to do it properly but that's how I'd do it.

BTW, I read your post again and your w is in typical, typical textbook withdrawal.

Jen


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