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Re: Check out latest email from WW. She is not an alien anymore
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I wrote her an email back somewhere in between extreme lovey and not. I think I need to let her know that my heart is still open to her and that I except her apology. She needs me right now and being there for her will mean a lot. It is too close to the end to play mental games since she is finally opening up. I don't know if my indifference and moving on lately has made her feel like I don't love her anymore so I need to let her know that I do. I also told her in the email that she does deserve me. That she was active in and helped create the best 5 years of my life. Who else would deserve me more? Besides the A I have nothing but good memories of my W.
Re: Check out latest email from WW. She is not an alien anymore
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juke

I wonder if its not the time to be very careful & play it the smart way..what about contacting the Harleys and getting some professional advice here,
Your wife seems very remorseful but where is she in her head??

Just a thought juke

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Re: Check out latest email from WW. She is not an alien anymore
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Juke,

Has it occured to you, that her email was a cry for help to test the waters because she has serious second thoughts about the D?? I am inclinded to think that otherwise she might have sent this AFTER the D or not at all. THis does NOT mean that all is well, but that she has second thoughts.

The issue of forgiveness is in my mind up to you. If you truely have then say so. If you would truely like to reach that level with her, tell her that is what you seek. But, mostly if you want her in your life, tell her so and tell her why. Not just that you love her, but what you love about her.

Hopefully, she will respond to your email. Then continue the dialogue.

God Bless,

JL
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