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We love each other, but my best friend and him have been spending a lot of time together. I just was wondering if anyone could help me out?
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I think that YES you should be worried. If your H is spending time with someone else rather than you there is always a chance things could happen. I would confront H and get the truth. I'm in my own mess right now so keep posting. You will get good advice from the veterans here.
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He has denied being involved, but there is a weird feeling. if you know what i mean. She has become with drawn from me, and the topic of divorce has come up. I told my H that if there was somthing going on that he should just be honest about it, but he still denies it.
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He has denied being involved, but there is a weird feeling. if you know what i mean. She has become with drawn from me, and the topic of divorce has come up. I told my H that if there was somthing going on that he should just be honest about it, but he still denies it.
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Sweetie - They always deny, and lie, even when you catch them cold. Always trust your gut feelings and check this very carefully, especially since your friend is withdrawing from you.
There are tons of people on this board whose spouses had affairs with their friends. I would be very suspicious.
Pretty soon he will be telling you he loves you but is naot in love with you.
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YES!!!Just speaking from experience. My BF and my husband are having an affair.She left her husband and he left me. You should be vey concerned. Insist that they stop talking because it is making you feel uncomfortable. See how he responds. Also tell your bf the same. See what happens.
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