The WW just asked about the future weekend plans. I have an old friend getting married, there is a golf outing this Saturday (the 28th), I play volleyball on Friday nights, next week is my buddies wedding (9/4) followed by my brothers stag party, two weekends after that is my brothers wedding (9/18).

So, the WW will have to be a mom for most of the next few weekends.

I told her I would skip volleyball if she asked, and she asked if I would come home after v-ball so she could go out. I said no, if you want to go out, we can do something together.

She asked if it is fair that you can go out for the next couple weekends and you will not come home on Friday night so she can go out?

Instead of answering, I said "do you think it is fair to me that I should watch the kids so you can go have an affair?" We were on the phone and the conversation ended quickly - surprisingly there was no hang up, just a kurt, I going now..

I felt like saying: "IS IT FAIR THAT ON AT LEAST THREE OCCASIONS (now confirmed to be more) I STAYED AT HOME WHILE YOU HAD SEX WITH ANOTHER MAN!!!!!!! UNPROTECTED SEX THAT GOT YOU PREGENT!!!!! IS IT FAIR THAT I WAS HOME WITH OUR KIDS WHILE YOU SERVICED ANOTHER MAN IN A BAR PARKING LOT!!!!!!!!!"

The above rant brought to you in part by 'canthishelp' AKA the man who asked for all the details and got them.

Well, I did not say those things and I hope I can control myself and continue to get better.

I hope I survive this.

Nicely reversed!!!!

Giving both a woo and a hoo!!!