Quote from Liliane:

OK, my fiance and I are not typical. He was separated from his wife before we started dating, but she believes that he didn't beg her to come back because he was seeing me:
1. Accept that the odds on him leaving her for you are not great -- Not true in our case. And he never had affairs, nor did I.

2. If he does leave his wife for you, remember James Goldsmith -- He split up with her because she gave up working on their marriage, and he was tired of begging for marriage counseling.

3. Think about who you are -- I'm very happy to be with him. I'm not the "bit on the side"; I'm the woman who loves him, and who he is planning a life with.

4. Take a long, hard look at his family and finances -- I earn a good living, and we could live off my salary. Taking care of his child's needs will not bother me.

5. Think about being at the bottom of his list of priorities -- Nope, I'm at the top. As is he, for once in his life.
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Liliane, based on this rebuttal to the article “Before you have an affair with a married man”, perhaps now would be a good time for you to share your story. Can you do that for us? KB