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Today I recieved an invitation to the a 50th birthday party for a friend of ours (this man and his wife have been close friends to WH and myself for a long time - WH has considered him his best friend in the past).
WH has not been nice to this friend since they found out about WH's A. In fact, WH has sometimes been downright mean to this friend. WH has had almost nothing nice to say about his friend for a while - I put it down to guilt on WH's part.
Should I send this invitation on to WH? I don't know if he will attend or not, considering his treatment of this friend for some time now.
Also, what do I do if WH shows up at this party with OW?
How in the world should I handle that?
K
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I would just go by yourself, K. Or take your DD if you can bring a guest. Your H has left and you are in Plan B so you can't talk to him!
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K,
The invitation is for you. Don't pass it on to your WH, sounds like it would only bring trouble to you and your friends.
Gillian
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Gillian...
Actually the invitation was to WH and myself.
Haven't talked to friends for almost two weeks. Don't think they know I have kicked WH out.
I guess there is no harm in not sending the invite on to WH.
I think I would come unglued if WH walked in some place with OW while I was there.
Do WS's do these kind of mean things while being Plan B'd?
K
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K-
go the party. enjoy yourself. forget about WH for the evening. you deserve it!!
Gillian
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