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I'm about to call SH with Fogman
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and I am so nervous. I have pretty much made up my mind to ditch Fogman, and told him I am filing for a D. I planned to talk with SH to make sure I am making the right decision. Now, Fogman wants to join in. We are going to do a conference call.

Quick recap of our situation: Fogman having an A, started while I was preggo, moved out, life SUCKED for a long time, he moved back in, we were supposed to make a fresh start in Maine, but OW followed him there, now there is no way I am going there, too! Our house is on the market as of Monday. Moving me and kids to PA. Plan to file for a D soon. Now all of a sudden, he's being nicer to me.

I told him there is no reason for me to stay M to him anymore due to the OW. He needs to show ME why I should stay M, because I don't see it right now.

We'll see how he denies and lies today.
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So, we both talked with SH...

Steve really gets to the point, doesn't he? He actually thinks there may be hope, even though I want a D right now, says to take it week by week.

The strongest advice I got from him was to NOT DISCUSS THE A OR OW AT ALL. "Change the subject" if he brings it up. Yikes! This will be hard, but I'll try. We only see each other on weekends, so it's hard for it not to bubble to the surface at least once per weekend.

SH has nothing but good things to say about all of you wonderful people on these boards. Me, too!

Weel, he assigned us both some work to do, so one step at a time.

Fogman called me afterwards to see how my session went. We didn't discuss each other's session (SH talked with us together on a conference call, then separately). We'll see...

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