My husband and I have been separated since June and noe he is living with her now and using his apartment as an office. He refuses to stop seeing her and work on our marriage. So today I told him since he was unwilling to work toward our marriage I was filing for a legal separation.
It was the hardest thing I have ever done. I love him but her isn't willing to stop his behavior. I told him I would never give up but I had to do this to protect me and the children.
Emotionally, I'm devastated, my head says it was the right thing to do. 17years down the tubes.