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It's starting again.......
#11786 09/18/99 12:06 AM
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My wife betrayed me, and lied about it for several months. Since she came clean ( 6 months ago), and broke it off, we have been working hard to rebuild our marriage. Today, she cancels lunch with me, and then I find out she was in another male co-workers office, wishing him a happy birthdy. Deja-vu. Have I been suckered? I sure feel like it.
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#11787 09/17/99 02:11 PM
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Did she try to hide it, or lie about it?<P>------------------<BR>
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#11788 09/17/99 03:18 PM
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Are you sure? If so, plan B buddy. You know what they say? Screw me once shame on you, screw me twice shame on me.
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#11789 09/17/99 03:58 PM
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Was she all alone in the office, door closed, wishing him a happy birthday? <P>What does "wishing him a happy birthday" mean? A hug? A kiss? Words only?<P>Was she with a bunch of co-workers and everyone was singing happy birthday and eating cake?<P>Did she lie to you about what she'd be doing?<P>These questions need an answer before you jump to any conclusions.<P>Find out first!
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#11790 09/17/99 08:08 PM
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Ask first. At the very least she wasn't quite honest, find out if she was protecting you...or herself. It does make a difference in her intentions. Expect to be tested. But then, my H did re-start his affair affair some months...so don't be blind, either. My counselor described it as walking an invible thread over the Grand Canyon...<P>Good luck to you.

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