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I gave WH the Plan B letter on Thursday. (WH is a passive-aggressive. During Plan A, he was angry and mean. Since Plan B news, he has been docile and polite.) On Friday, I sent a copy of the letter to OW with note at the bottom as in the SAA. At first, I was not sure about sending the letter to the OW, but now I see the purpose. WH once told me that OW asked him, if I was okay with them being friends and he told me that he lied to her and said I was okay with it. I mailed that letter with a big smile on my face because it will shed the light of truth on the situation and blow the cover off WH's lies to her. OW generally calls WH during the weekend and they meet on Mondays.

Question: What will be the reaction of the OW? What will be the reaction of WH? Please let me know what your experience was with this situation or what do you think will happen?

Thanks for your thoughts and being on the board this weekend.

<small>[ August 30, 2004, 06:53 AM: Message edited by: SureSurvivor ]</small>

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Bump for thoughts/experiences.

<small>[ August 30, 2004, 06:55 AM: Message edited by: SureSurvivor ]</small>

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WH is a passive-aggressive. During Plan A, he was angry and mean. Since Plan B news, he has been docile and polite.)

what does that mean?
since plan b news he has been docile and polite?

are you in contact since plan b??
tisk tisk tisk if you are... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

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Not in contact...just waiting for him to leave.

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Not in contact...just waiting for him to leave.
<img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />
Waiting for him to leave? You are still living together?
Then you know what he is doing and where he is. That is contact.


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