IH,,,
I will try to relate as to what I have come to understand about PA's.
First of all after my wife betrayed me I turned around and betrayed her. My sole motive was not to satisfy my sexual needs. I was trying to punish my wife plain and simple. So needless to say the sex I had with OW sucked,, because it was not my wife and I was using this OW for my own agenda.
Now with prolonged emotional PA's I have learned to accept that "yes" the sex is great. While it is usually not the motivator in an affair the Sex tends to be more exciting with this new found so called.. soul mate. It was told to me if I wanted to know how the sex was between my wife and her OM I just had to think back to how the sex was when I firs felt that infatuation with my wife. It is the same in an affair. The sex is new. The two are highly infatuated with each other. Often they have sex in the most convienent places. Cars, public restrooms, at work and so on.
If two people are wrapped up in a EA for a long period of time to finally go PA with the affair makes the sex exciting. The feeling of wanting each other for so long and finally giving in feels great to the WS.
In other people just the fact that they are having forbidden sex gives it a stimulous affect.
So from just what I have read and digested I am sorry to say,,,, Yes the sex in an affair is usually great. Just remember its not the physical aspects that make it great it is the emotions that make it great.
