Have not posted in a while. WH has been out of the house since last week in june. He has been to see me, calls off and on, but still says he does not know what he wants. He says that he does not love OW but they just were in the same place together in their lives. She is kicked out from her house. She has no where to go.
Last week they went to another state together for the week. She was looking places to live and he was looking jobs. He came back and told me that he can not afford to go and will go home to his parents to think about things and see if he wants to be married. I asked why he went there with her then, and he said that he just had to make sure it was not something he wanted to do.
He is supposed to leave this weekend for his parents which is 6 hours away. She is still in town, but is supposed to be leaving in the next month for her new place in the other state(I assume, so many lies, who knows).
I am thinking he is going home to wait it out until she is ready to go. He has no job and has bills outside of what we owe together.
I am so sad that he is choosing to go home, but also glad if he will be away from her and in a setting that supports me and him together.
Should I call or visit? If he calls and asks me to visit, should I go?
I am just afraid he feels guilty and that is why he would want to see me and then I would feel worse if he left to go with her after a month.
I am so sad now. It is all sad, the A and everything, the lies, etc. but now it has hit me that he is leaving. Maybe it will make him miss what he had or maybe it is his holding cell until he leaves????
