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It's been a month and a half since W told me of A with her boss. I had gotten advice to tell W to quit her job yesterday. Well, yesterday W said she didn't know if job was right for her. I said I felt the same way, then W got defensive and confronted me in front of our 5 year old. I didn't want to argue then, so at bed time I tried to talk. W wouldn't do it. I have been Plan A'ing, and things are a little better. When do I bring this topic up again? I want her to quit now. Everyday she goes to work, it kills me inside. Any thoughts?
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She is goading you into making her the victim. You are not the perpetrator.
For you: Keep working on you and the chlldren. I am not saying keep her away but let her move herself out.
Seems like when the reality hits, she gets cold feet. Don't let her take you down.
L.
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