My husband had an affair just over 2 years ago. We are doing better than ever. In fact we are both leading affair recovery groups in our church. I have a situation where 1 married woman in our church was involved with 2 married men in the same church. All involved parties are very involved in our church & none want to leave. Although I think that most of them wish the other involved parties would leave. My question is, how do these couples recover when there is contact every week? How can I help them deal with this difficult situation? In my own experience, my husband did break all contact with the other woman. I just don't see how recovery works when the other woman or man is still around.

Thanks in advance for any advice, I sure could use it on this one.
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Me(30), DH(29)
4 boys(6,3,2,6mo)
d-day - 9/16/02 - no contact since
9/2/04 - Married 9 years today!
The journey was hard, but the destination is better than I ever imagined.

Jeremiah 29:11 - For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.