Almost 2 years after affair I met the OW at a wedding and spent a few weeks getting to know her circumstances arose that nessistated this a wedding we were both invited to overseas and to not cause problems for the bride and groom I put my best foot forward and said to her we can make this situation work for them. I think god or "someone" wanted to see how far they could push me we ended up having to spend a night in the same house together then at the wedding we were seated at the same table. Then if that was not enough we went on holidays with the Bride and groom to spend time with them as this was the only time they had off work... o/w and her boyfriend also came along I found out about these plans about 10 minutes before we left.. Strangely though the more I got to know this girl the more I liked her and trusted her I will not say it was easy as obviously it wasnt. But I came away from this trip glad that I chose the road I took. She said to me how sorry she was for all the pain her and my husband caused and after meeting me she relised she must forget my husband and I genuueinly beleive her. I no longer think of her as the aweful person I once thought her to be,
Has anyone else gone through similar??

Interesting..... I met OM pre Affair and I thought him an utterly bland, old, boring little man. Never dreamed for a SECOND that he might end up being my WWs affair 'soulmate'.

I pray that my WW or I never meet him again post-a. No good can come of it.