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Durham,
I find myself pregnant again to my WH that doesn't want me. We seem to have so much in common. I could use support.Can we talk?
CoolDuck22@hotmail.com
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Coolduck - There are several of us here in this situation. It sucks, but my baby is what keeps me strong and keeps me going. I don't know how I would have survived this if I didn't have my little miracle. I firmly believe everything happens for a reason. This baby was a gift from god and there was a reason she was given to me (and WH) at this particular time in our lives. How else do you account for the fact that we tried to have a baby for two years and the month we only tried one time it happened? And right when his A started?
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This is my second child. DD is 18 months old. WH ruined my first pregnancy with his A, which has been off and on since. I don't think he wants to come home and I don't know if I want him. I wanted to talk to Durham76 because she seems to recognize that she is better off without her WH. I think I am too on most days, but then I am weak. I am also very scared on dealing with 2 small children almost 2 years apart. I used to be the one giving advice about how things change when they see the baby. now I feel that maybe I said the wrong things. My Wh loves our DD. It's me that he doesn't love and he seems himself better off without. I am starting to think that a baby is not the reason to stay in a M. I guess I wanted to talk to Durham to see how she is coping and how she is feeling
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