He sends me emails like this...... I just don't understand him. He seems so calm and like everything will be just fine...any advice on his email????? Help!!!!

T-
you cant see the angel, you cant see the air, you cant see the love for you, but its everywhere.  You are not alone.   Anonymous  from baptist faith.  
 
you will be fine, Trisha, just believe.
 
I think you should still really consider reading the book I mentionned. The title is misleading.  Even if you just read the forward/preface... It with entice you to continue. It will take less than 2 minutes to read the foward.  If you dont like it dont get it, very simple.   It has nothing to do with religion at all. I leave it up to you...do as you please.  The very first sentence in the forward reads: " there is no such thing as divorce............." 
 
Trisha, this is no one elses life but yours.  Not your moms, not your friends...it is yours.  Give yourself a chance.  Please understand that I am trying to help not hurt.  The harm has been done so now move forward. I understand your pain and I am trying to help with as much compassion as I can given the situation.  In your last email, if those were your true words, you seemed to be gaining courage and strength.  I can only encourage you to stay strong and stay on that path to healing.  Stop blaming everything and everyone else around you.  It prevents you from healing.

T - I am not sure what he is trying to say possibly because I am not familiar with your particular situation. If you can share them, what were your words in the last e-mail that WH refers to? Maybe these will help put the conversation into context.
No matter what, you keep doing things that help you grow as a person.
Just remember, I/We are all thinking about you and are here for you. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

<small>[ September 08, 2004, 05:32 PM: Message edited by: RenaissanceMan ]</small>