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Is this Freaky or what?????
#1183197 09/10/04 12:13 AM
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My ww and i are still sleeping in the same bed. (King size with lots of pillows between). Not ready to go there yet......

last night i got up to go to the bathroom and walked around to her side of hte bed adn looked at her sleeping <img border="0" title="" alt="[Embarrassed]" src="images/icons/blush.gif" /> The very next thought htat popped in my head was "Damm shes hot". <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

She has been going to the gym and it shows.

Is it my heart or my hormones? IS this normal?
I love her but dont like her right now.
Re: Is this Freaky or what?????
#1183198 09/10/04 12:24 AM
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Is it my heart or my hormones?
<img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> It's probably accurate to say "both".

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JaH, I actually had a similar thought last night as well. This is before I started Plan A and she exploded. I attribute it to my love for her and my desire to be affectionate with her. Even though I know this is not what she wants from me right now. Of course sex is an issue but there are many other things that must come first. I'd say take a cold shower and try and concentrate on your task at hand to win back your M.
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Even though I'm totally disguested with my WH/serial cheat actions - I have not lost my attraction to him. I truly never look at other men - I avoid eye contact with OM - I am hopelessly attracted to my WH - too bad he doesn't feel that way for me....Just to have him touch me again would be nice...It's been soooo long...

Today's our 10 year A - and we haven't even spoken..
Re: Is this Freaky or what?????
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Shoot! Nio's been the ONLY one to do "it" for me, ever....it's KILLING me to be attracted to him and disgusted by him at the same time!

- Kimmy
Re: Is this Freaky or what?????
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Even if she wanted to i dont think i could.

just not ready....too many thoughts in my head.


but i can sneak a peak every now and then <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />
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but i can sneak a peak every now and then <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

Pervert!

<img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />
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#1183204 09/10/04 12:43 AM
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not a perv....im just in love with a distant person right now.
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JAH...
I know what you mean. My WH isn't here for me to even look at but I do dream of us "together". The thought of actually being with him makes me sick because of everyting he has done to me but I do still find him very attractive and wish he would just touch me once again. It's been a long time for me too and I miss it!!!!!!
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not Alone there Just

In fact thast the damn problem, she looks to good to others.

After our lunch today that rear end vision as she walked back to her office was SOOOOO nice..hey stop lookin you.... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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