Morning Everyone,

My best and life-long friend has just recently experienced D-day. Understandably, she is very distraught and going thru the d-day emotional rollercoaster we have all ridden on.

Her story does have some uniqueness in that she was, unbeknownst to her at the time, the OW. So her 7 year marriage is an adultery-based union. When they were dating her now-H (WS) told her he was divorced, and she of course believed him. Master manipulator.

Now, after 7 years of marriage, he is doing a mirror image repeat performance, although this time my dearest friend in the world is the BS.

Her screen name is InFaith and is about to post her story. Any help/support you can provide her is greatly appreciated.

Here's her story:
InFaith's Story


Love you all and God Bless,
Jo

<small>[ September 12, 2004, 02:05 PM: Message edited by: Resilient ]</small>

Dupe.

<small>[ September 12, 2004, 02:00 PM: Message edited by: Resilient ]</small>

Thanks for the link, Jo!

Dear Jo,

Wow, sorry to hear about infaith's scenario. I am glad she has you to help her. I remember how much you helped me during my time of need.

I just posted on both her threads..... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />


Hugz,
L.

Gawd you guys are so wonderful.

New Jersey, Pep, Melody, Orchid and Believer .. thank you for helping her.

I'm pretty angry right now with her husband. From Faith's snooping, it tells her he has been leading a complete duplicate life with the OW for 2+ years.

It's just so hard to fathom that he was living with the OW and with Faith in tandem and was telling both of them he was traveling as his excuse for excessive absences. He had Faith feeling really bad for him that we was working so hard for "THEM" and sacrificing so much for the sake of her and the marriage. He wouldn't allow her to buy anything (squeaky tight budget) then come to find out he was spending tons on the OW.

I'm so close to her and this situation, I may not be the best source for advice right at the moment for her. I'm still seeing RED.

Just thanks again for helping her.You're all wonderful.

Jo

<small>[ September 11, 2004, 02:10 PM: Message edited by: Resilient ]</small>

Bumping up.