I know this is to be expected. After a couple of tries DH finally is NC with OW - since Tuesday. So I know this is withdrawl - but he is so depressed and pushing me away. I hate to see him like this. This is so not my DH - I don't know what to do for him. He just went to take a shower (hasn't done that in 2 days - really unheard of for my HD). I told him I wish I could help - he said you can't - abnd then I saud you need to do this yourself and he said yes.

In the past when he has been hurt and upset he has crawled up next to me and let me hold him - sooth the pain. He has looked to me for comfort - but not today - or this week. I am afraid it is keeping me on edge. I am so afraid he'll contact OW tomorrow while he is at work (something he has done before).

On a side note - I read Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands this week. WOW - I think I'll start a whole new thread on that.

I just hoppe we make it through the next couple of weeks - we have a joint counseling session tomorrow. Hopefully it will go well.