I read your post about plan A that was posted in july.It was so informative. I belive that I have not been doing a good plan A but now I know I can.I hope that it's not too late.You know we BS never know that.The fog that the WS has can be so thick that even the BS can't see the way.I love my husband very much and want for him to return home but I know that it is out of my hands except for plan A.I guess it should be called our secret weapon. The way you decribed plan A was like a healing of three things in one.(healing WS,BS and hopefully the marriage) Thank you for your post even tho I'm two months behind it was a god send to me.Wish me luck and pray that I do a good plan A now that I understand and I will pray for all that uses this site. Thanks once again!