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Papers have been signed. She is only waiting on some from her retirement account. She has been in contact with a firm that may offer her a job in the OM's town. My question is this-should I inform the OM's wife that she is coming to her town? OM's wife and I have been communicating off and on since DDay. So in one way I feel like I owe the OM's wife the courtesy of giving her a heads up but on the other hand this could be a huge LB for my wife. What do I do? Any thoughts?
My wife insists that she is going to be with OM - for a "fresh" start.
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Definitely. I am sure she would appreciate it. Is your W still in the house?
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ML - yes she is still at home. She is waiting on a distribution from her retirement account. She has not set a date to leave.
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I would tell OM's wife right away. Also see if she will come to MarriageBuilders.
You may be able to shake up this little fantasy before your wife blows a lot of money.
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If I were in OM's wife's shoes.... I'd sure appreciate a call....
do it!
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Thanks for your replies. I will talk to OM's wife as soon as she firms up her plans to go there.
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Definitely let her know.
LBing??
Please correct me if I am wrong, but is there still a worry about LBing if the W is heading out to live with OM? Isn't a little late to worry about that?
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