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#1184989 09/13/04 07:41 PM
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Another few days and another story to tell.

The WW is moving out on Sunday, our 4th Anniversy is the 23rd. She could not even stick it out for four years. I have to say, now that I know she is leaving, plan A is much easier. I just keep telling myself, only another week. Soon, she will be gone.

I am not sure if I am nuts or not, but as much as I hate her, I know that if she came home tonight and said she still loved me and wanted to work on it 100%, I would do it. I feel like I been down so damn low, that it looks like up to me.

My brothers wedding is this Saturday, so Sunday morning, me and my sisters H are helping her move out. The OM and his buddies are helping her move in. Then the fun really begins. I figure to go into about $7500 in debt plus the lawyer expense.

For my troubles, I think I will get the house and have to buy her a new car. Seems like a deal to me. She gets most of the interior stuff, I get the lawn mower, power tools and such. I just realized that if I can make it through the winter here, I will be able to park my car in the garage!!!! See, there is a silver lining.

My WW A is starting to fall apart (finally). She spent Saturday painting her new apt with him. Then he was going out to some bars and my WW decided to go camping with some old friends. I guess that upset the OM. So then, on Sunday, my WW went to the OM house to 'talk' at 9:00pm. She got home some time after 10:30. She told me she got home at 11:30, but I was out like a light. I think he wants a full blown relationship w/WW but she doesn't. He He He He Ha Ha Ha Ha <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> the irony of it all!!!!!!

How soon after she moves out can I start to date? Just kidding. I have a boat load of house work to do now. I may or may not sell the house.

If I can get some buyers, I will sell. I guess I need to get it appraised first.

Oh well, that was my update. I have some more job interviews this week, so keep your fingers crossed.

Have a good night you-all!!!!

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canthishelp - Sounds good. When she is actually living with OM, the truth will come out.

Just take care of yourself and children. I don't think the fantasy is going to last that long. My prayers are with you.


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